not your safe harbour

Amazingly handsome, talented and charming. Gay as all fuck. she/her.
So this is the tee I sleep in. Perhaps should have chosen something different for Sunday morning breakfast with family.
Mum *narrows eyes* - what does that mean?
Me - Rachel Evan Wood is an actor and her name has been changed into an amusing...

So this is the tee I sleep in. Perhaps should have chosen something different for Sunday morning breakfast with family.

Mum *narrows eyes* - what does that mean?
Me - Rachel Evan Wood is an actor and her name has been changed into an amusing innuendo.
Mum - …why?

This is after the last visit home when I bumped into Mum as I was heading to the bathroom in my underwear.

Mum - why are you wearing boys underwear?
Me *shouts through bathroom door" NOT NOW MOTHER.
Mum - do you need underwear? I’ll buy you some.
Me - GO AWAY AND LET ME PEE, JESUS FUCKING CHRIST.

At my parents for a visit. There is a lot of vodka involved.

But! They wanted me to go through old photo albums and pick out any I wanted.

Look at this fucking cute genderqueer kid. “A dress??? Okay… But it best be blue. And I want real real short hair.”

I’m going to carry these pictures around and slap them down as evidence the next time some clueless straight person asks when I knew I was gay.

Tiny Adventure Club Masterpost

tinyadventureclub:

Please note this is still very much a work in progress. But I figured it did more good here than sitting in my drafts.

Adulting

Work

School

Mental Health

LGBT

Body Image

Good Stories

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What to do when you're not the hero any more

weconqueratdawn:

thewinterotter:

The rage that white men have been expressing, loudly, violently, over the very idea that they might find themselves identifying with characters who are not white men, the very idea that heroism might not be particular to one race or one gender, the basic idea that the human story is vast and various and we all get to contribute a page - that rage is petty. It is aware of its own pettiness. Like a screaming toddler denied a sweet, it becomes more righteous the more it reminds itself that after all, it’s only a story.

Only a story. Only the things we tell to keep out the darkness. Only the myths and fables that save us from despair, to establish power and destroy it, to teach each other how to be good, to describe the limits of desire, to keep us breathing and fighting and yearning and striving when it’d be so much easier to give in. Only the constitutive ingredients of every human society since the Stone age.

Only a story. Only the most important thing in the whole world.

The people who are upset that the faces of fiction are changing are right to worry. It’s a fundamental challenge to a worldview that’s been too comfortable for too long. The part of our cultural imagination that places white Western men at the centre of every story is the same part that legitimises racism and sexism. The part of our collective mythos that encourages every girl and brown boy to identify and empathise with white male heroes is the same part that reacts with rage when white boys are asked to imagine themselves in anyone else’s shoes.

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queergraffiti:
““you matter”, written over a trans pride flag
Brighton, England
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queergraffiti:

“you matter”, written over a trans pride flag

Brighton, England

Reasons why Patty Tolan is a blessing:

jholltzmann:

- talks to everyone who passes her booth and seems to remember their names
- she is so nice to everyone
- world’s nicest badass
- the entire spray paint scene
- “bye patty! love you!”
- she thought the ghostbusters was a book club and still stuck around anyway.
- she knows so much about the history of New York, like seriously this is impressive considering I can’t remember what happened 10min ago.
- “room full of nightmares” me too patty, me too
- she just brushed off not being caught when stage diving and just carried on with what she was doing.
- (that stage dive was so badass, she deserved to be caught)
- kept her cool when a ghost dragon was using her as a seat
- shes incredibly thoughtful
- bought sandwiches for everyone because she knows they’re hungry and really absorbed in their work and just someone has to look after them.
-fought off a possessed abby with one hand whilst saving holtzmann with the other
- “THE POWER OF PATTY COMPELS YOU!”